So, I was scrolling through my Instagram feed as usual when I came across some news about several students of Sekolah Rakyat (People's School) withdrawing from the program because they found the boarding school environment an…
Read moreBeing responsible as an adult, yet still simple as a kid. I don't know why I've been contemplating this lately. It just keeps coming back, over and over in my head. Biologically, I am an adult. I'm a 1997 baby. They s…
Read moreI'm so obsessed with feelings and human's soul. It sounds weird. Yes, I know. It really does. When people say they're obsessed with something, they usually say money, fashion, travel, food, skincare, something visible…
Read moreWe grow up thinking that being authentic means you have to be the same person everywhere. The same tone, the same style, the same personality from your Instagram bio to your family dinner table. Neat. Tidy. Predictable. But the l…
Read moreImagine growing up in a world where everything operates on certainty. You are raised to believe that life is a precise equation: every ounce of effort you invest will reliably yield an equal return. Then, as you approach thirty, …
Read moreAs an introvert, I don't know why, but just seeing other people being loud like their chatter, the atmosphere, even just the number of people makes me feel tired. Like my battery drops from 100% to 0% instantly. Why is that…
Read moreBeing born as a woman often comes with an unspoken manual. The manual says: be calm, be aesthetic, be soft-spoken, be pleasing to the eye. If you are too loud, too raw, or too curious about things outside that manual, you are qui…
Read moreI don’t know why I wanted to drop this out here today. Usually, whenever I get way too emotional over something, I prefer to ghost the world for a bit, analyze my feelings, and map them all out. In the end, it turns into a piec…
Read moreReputation is what people think of you, character is what you are. I found it on an Instagram post and I don't know why, it was one of those quotes that just stuck. You know when you scroll and then suddenly you stop? That wa…
Read moreIt's almost 100 days since my cousin passed away. Unlike the normal passing of a family member, a neighbor, or someone I know, his passing left a scar that I honestly don't even know when it will heal. There are losses …
Read moreI was just minding my own business, scrolling through Instagram, when I accidentally stumbled upon content from a married couple sharing their “how we met” story. The first slide was a screenshot of a DM. The husband, who was a t…
Read more"Ego" I believe every human being has an ego, myself included. And maybe, the more I try to understand people, the more I realize that ego is not something we can truly erase. We can only learn to recognize it, control …
Read more"There is wisdom behind everything." It is a phrase we often utter when things go wrong, a comforting reminder that the universe operates on a blueprint of purpose. Yet, truly internalizing it requires experiencing a …
Read moreSome people shop to de-stress. Others run, paint, or binge-watch their favorite series. Me? I fix things. There is an irreplaceable thrill in taking something that has been declared dead, useless, or obsolete, and breathing new l…
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