It’s not the gun, but the person behind the gun. Have you ever heard this proverb? For me, the meaning is simple: skill matters more than the tool. A good tool can certainly make our work easier, but having expensive equipment do…
Read moreHello, guys! Do you believe that our childhood moments can shape who we become today? I do, actually. Among all the things that influence us like our parents' upbringing, our environment, life experiences, and the journeys …
Read moreLately, social media has been filled with negative news, both internationally and nationally in Indonesia. On the international side, updates about Gaza and Palestine often make me feel furious, sad, and helpless. Seeing people…
Read moreA few days ago, I wrote about 3 biggest changes when approaching 30. You can read it in the link below 3 Big Changes I’ve Noticed as I Approach 30 Now I want to write about the 3 biggest fears that I feel as I’m almost 30. I thi…
Read moreI used to think turning 30 would be terrifying. Maybe because, in my mind, I still feel like an 18-year-old girl who had just graduated from high school. Somehow, the years passed so quickly that my brain never completely caught …
Read moreMaybe tonight feels heavier than usual. The kind of night where silence is loud, and your thoughts refuse to slow down. Because tonight, I’m writing about something that sounds simple but feels incredibly painful: letting go. Jus…
Read moreHello world! In this holy month, a month often associated with reflection, repentance, and returning to what truly matters, I would like to talk about one simple word that carries a depth far beyond its letters: confession. It is…
Read moreHello world! I’m back with confusion, not food, okay so… 😅 Tonight feels a little heavy, so I decided to write. I just watched a meaningful Instagram Reel about ujub (being proud of oneself in a way that crosses into arroganc…
Read moreHello, world! Tonight, a question keeps echoing in my mind; one about the human system itself, about values and behaviors that feel very different from what I was taught at school. School trained me to memorize formulas, follow…
Read moreHappy Saturday Night! Does anyone here want to go out this evening to enjoy their time? Me? No, unfortunately. It’s because one of my flip-flops is broken. 🤫😂 (I’m kidding.) Actually, I’d like to talk about trauma tonight. …
Read moreBeing loved sincerely by someone is a blessing unlike any other. It feels magical to finally find someone who matches your depth, loyalty, and care, someone who resonates with your internal world in ways no one else can. When t…
Read moreAs 2025 draws to a close, the cold heart finds itself standing at a fragile threshold. For years, it has carried insecurity, the quiet fear of never being enough, and not worthy of love. Besides, it has carried trauma from lies…
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