So, I was scrolling through my Instagram feed as usual when I came across some news about several students of Sekolah Rakyat (People's School) withdrawing from the program because they found the boarding school environment and its strict regulations difficult to deal with.

Honestly, this topic caught my attention. Not only because it concerns education, but also because it raises an interesting question: When education offers us a better future, how much sacrifice should we be willing to make to achieve it?

We know that Sekolah Rakyat was established to help underprivileged children access formal education and get opportunities that they might not otherwise have. The program is intended to make education more accessible to children whose families face financial difficulties. In that sense, I believe it is a meaningful initiative because every child deserves the opportunity to learn, grow, and build a better future, regardless of their economic background.

We also know that every educational program has its advantages and challenges. One of the most obvious advantages of Sekolah Rakyat is that students receive educational support and living necessities without having to bear the same financial burden as students in ordinary schools. For families who struggle to afford tuition fees, school supplies, transportation, food, and other educational expenses, this kind of support can make a tremendous difference.

Logically, it sounds like an excellent opportunity. Students can focus on their education without worrying too much about the financial difficulties that might otherwise prevent them from continuing their studies.

However, there is always another side to the story.

As a boarding school, Sekolah Rakyat comes with a different learning environment and lifestyle. Students have to follow established schedules and regulations, from the time they wake up and eat to their study hours, activities, and bedtime. They may also have limited access to personal devices, including mobile phones.

For students who are accustomed to living with their families and enjoying greater freedom, adjusting to this environment might be challenging. They suddenly have to follow a structured routine, share their living spaces with other students, and spend most of their time within a regulated environment.

But isn't that part of the boarding school experience?

Boarding schools generally have rules because they aim to create discipline, independence, responsibility, and a structured learning environment. Therefore, having regulations is not necessarily a bad thing. In fact, I can understand why schools implement them, especially when their goal is to help students develop good habits and focus on their education.

Interestingly, when I read the comments on the news, I found contrasting opinions.

Some people understood why the students decided to withdraw. They argued that the regulations were too rigid and made the school feel more like a prison than a place to learn. From their perspective, receiving free education should not mean losing one's freedom entirely.

On the other hand, some people blamed the students for not being grateful. They argued that many children would love to have the same opportunity, so those who receive it should be willing to endure difficulties. After all, success requires struggle, right?

Honestly, I find both perspectives interesting because they highlight two different values: appreciating opportunities and respecting individual needs.

Personally, I believe that we should appreciate the opportunities we receive, especially when they can help us build a better future. However, I also think we should be careful about judging people whose circumstances and experiences we do not fully understand.

Before discussing this further, let me share a little about my educational background.

I have never attended a boarding school. I went to a public elementary school near my home, a private Islamic junior high school, a public vocational high school, and a private Islamic institute. In other words, I have experienced education in both public and private institutions.

I am genuinely grateful because, my parents always prioritized education for their children. They understood that education could provide opportunities that might not be available otherwise. Their support allowed me to continue studying, and I know that not every child has the same privilege.

So, what does this have to do with Sekolah Rakyat?

Well, I believe education is one of the many ways to open doors to new opportunities. It can expand our perspectives, improve our abilities, introduce us to new possibilities, and help us create a different future. That is why I admire people who pursue education, whether through formal institutions or informal learning.

For me, learning should never be limited to a classroom. We can learn through books, online courses, discussions, work experiences, and even the challenges we encounter in everyday life. What matters is our willingness to keep learning and growing.

That is also why I personally see Sekolah Rakyat as a good initiative, although I admit that I do not know enough about its actual implementation in the field to evaluate every aspect of the program. I appreciate its underlying mission of helping children from underprivileged backgrounds access education.

However, I also believe that every valuable opportunity comes with responsibilities, and sometimes those responsibilities require sacrifices.

Imagine receiving a full scholarship that covers your education and daily necessities. In return, you are expected to follow a structured schedule, limit your entertainment, develop independence, and dedicate more time to studying.

From one perspective, these restrictions might feel uncomfortable. You cannot always do whatever you want, whenever you want. You may have to give up some personal freedom to adapt to the environment.

But from another perspective, these restrictions might help you develop habits that are useful for your future.

Learning to wake up early, manage your time, follow responsibilities, cooperate with others, and complete tasks without relying on your parents can be valuable life lessons. Similarly, limiting distractions can help students concentrate on their studies.

Of course, I do not mean that students should be deprived of every form of freedom or that every strict regulation is automatically good. There should be a reasonable balance between discipline and personal well-being. Students still need rest, emotional support, recreation, and opportunities to express themselves.

A school should help students grow, not make them feel trapped.

Nevertheless, I believe that temporary discomfort can sometimes be part of a meaningful learning process. The key is to distinguish between productive challenges that help students develop and excessive restrictions that negatively affect their well-being.

And even though I have never attended a boarding school, it does not mean that my own educational journey was free from sacrifices.

I remember how strict I could be with myself when it came to studying. I even made personal contracts about my study schedules and tried to hold myself accountable for following them. I wanted to be consistent because I knew that achieving something required effort.

There were also moments when I insisted on going to school even when I felt a little sick simply because my favorite subject, English, was being taught that day. I did not want to miss the opportunity to learn something I genuinely enjoyed.

When it came to mathematics, I often tried to solve problems independently before the teacher explained them in class. I wanted to challenge myself and understand the material through my own efforts rather than immediately relying on someone else.

Looking back, those habits helped shape the person I am today. They taught me discipline, perseverance, independence, and the importance of taking responsibility for my own learning.

Of course, I am not suggesting that everyone must follow my approach. In retrospect, I also recognize that pushing ourselves too hard can become unhealthy if we ignore our physical and emotional needs. Studying while genuinely unwell, for example, is not always the best decision.

Still, those experiences taught me something important: sometimes, the things we want to achieve require us to step outside our comfort zones.

We may need to sacrifice some leisure time to study for an examination. We may have to wake up earlier to finish an assignment. We may need to practice repeatedly before mastering a new skill. We might even have to postpone certain pleasures because we have a bigger goal to pursue.

These sacrifices are not always enjoyable, but they can help us move closer to our goals.

That is why I genuinely believe that success often involves sacrifice and struggle. However, I would also add that sacrifice alone does not guarantee success. We need the right environment, sufficient support, clear goals, and opportunities to grow. Sometimes, despite our best efforts, circumstances do not turn out as we hoped.

So, should we blame students who withdraw from Sekolah Rakyat?

I do not think we should rush to judge them. We can encourage them to persevere while still acknowledging that adapting to a boarding school is not easy for everyone. Their decisions might reflect difficulties that outsiders cannot fully understand.

At the same time, I hope students who remain in the program will make the most of the opportunities available to them. Access to education is precious, especially for those who have struggled to obtain it.

Eventually, I believe that the purpose of education is not merely to make students obedient or academically successful. It should also help them become independent, responsible, thoughtful, and capable of making the best decisions about their lives.

And perhaps this is the most important lesson we can take from this discussion: being grateful for an opportunity does not mean we cannot question its challenges, and choosing to leave an opportunity does not automatically mean we are ungrateful.

We can appreciate the value of discipline without glorifying unnecessary suffering. We can encourage perseverance without dismissing someone's struggles. Most importantly, we can recognize that every student has different needs, backgrounds, and capacities.

Education is a journey, and every journey comes with its own challenges. Some people learn discipline through boarding school regulations, while others develop it through personal commitments, family responsibilities, or independent study.

The paths may be different, but the goal remains similar: to learn, to grow, and to build a better future. 🤍